tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19348396632513164262024-03-13T13:45:58.278-07:00Keisha Martin Romance WriterRomance is
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Love is calm.
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<span style="color: blue; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace;">Recently I got in debate on social media with a writer, I didn't know this writer I saw his post in my timeline and got worked up. premise he wanted to get feedback on his setting in which was predominately inhibited by people of colour. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace;"><span style="color: blue;">The reason: for years people of colour experiences whether fiction or non-fiction has been written by Caucasian people, before I go on I would be remiss to not say said author clarified the story idea was his and was not inspired by the setting simply the setting worked for his story but I was confused he wanted feedback to make sure the setting was accurate he had visited the location but wanted someone from the setting to help authenticate the setting etc.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace;"><span style="color: blue;">I was still worked up even though I accepted his response in order to move on from the debate, the issue is that to date the publishing sector has not made huge strides in publishing more books with diverse characters or acquired more authors of colour and to suggest perhaps there are not enough diverse authors wanting opportunity to get their work published is not true I am one of such writers, even though I am not ready to seek an agent or get my mss published I am also a reader and it would be so refreshing to read more diverse books especially in the genres I write (YA/Adult romance)I was also thinking and this may be a quirky thought what if within novels authors make an active attempt to feature diversity via their character or a Caucasian character making an observation it doesn't have to be so obvious to make a point which will likely start another debate but worked naturally in the story, that is what I do in all my WIP I want my fictional world to have some aspect of my community, my city. </span></span><br />
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<span style="color: blue; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace;">Keisha Martin</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1934839663251316426.post-47432965829989945532019-06-27T10:22:00.003-07:002023-04-28T19:03:23.834-07:00Determining Burst of Creativity<script id="th-iframe-script" src="chrome-extension://ofdopmlmgifpfkijadehmhjccbefaeec/assets/comms/commsiframe.js"></script><br />
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<span>My burst of creativity when I edit happens at weird moments in which my creativity flows and I can write or edit an entire chapter, I am still working on my ER removing a fair bit of the plot that does not make sense.</span><br />
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<span>The biggest hurdle for me is the conflict of the main characters I have to go through each scene as if I have a magnifying glass and I write down in notebook things about the main character that makes sense.</span><br />
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<span>I am hoping during the two months I am off I can edit more and hopefully finish my book and 2021 begin the arduous task of querying which I have not done since I prematurely died in 2010.</span><br />
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<span>My last post I mentioned getting back to writing after my cancer diagnosis some days are challenging due to spontaneous pain that inhibits me from reading my manuscript, but days of feeling this pain is sometimes weeks and months apart so better days I am taking advantage. </span><br />
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<span>Keisha Martin</span></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1934839663251316426.post-701782025647630472019-01-19T21:32:00.002-08:002019-07-26T06:59:24.955-07:00Chronicling my cancer journey<br />
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Last November I was diagnosed with stage II breast cancer, it appeared as if time had slowed and then got faster, variety of emotions, feeling out of control in regards to countless test, touched by so many practitioners, surgery, and then treatment. </div>
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Throughout the entire process of treatment I wrote down my experience looking back at my notes it seemed I was reliving the entire circumstance again but it didn't sadden me I applauded myself that I pushed on and endured it truth of the matter I didn't have a choice. I didn't read or work on my drafts I had so many days I was so sick from the side effects of chemo, and I think being sick played a huge role of writer's block I couldn't think clearly. I was fortunate to have a solid support system and also online support groups of women and men that also experienced cancer as well.</div>
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I am six months in remission and although I do get scared about cancer returning I must live, it took me awhile to get to this point it feels great to get back to the things that make me happy such as writing and continuing my dream, getting cancer truly made me look at life different--I appreciate the simplistic things in life I don't take things for granted and getting cancer I feel it was a sign to slow down prior to cancer I consumed myself in work, I worried what people thought about me, stressed about finances, my kids etc. All that has changed I feel getting cancer enabled me to be a better version of me, for the first time I am comfortable in the skin I am in and looking at my scars from my mastectomy I appreciate the beauty of my scar.<br />
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Its that time of year at the Elementary school I work at, the annual book fair, I must admit I am generally more excited than the students so many books, the smell of new books ๐I don't restrict myself by reading particular genres, I enjoy reading Children/ Young Adult books I write in these genres along within the adult genre, with a strong emphasis on coming of age love, falling in and out of love, heartbreak and NSFW stories.<br />
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I am experiencing once again when will it be me and then that quickly turns into I have to find the time to edit my completed rough draft manuscript(s) and the numerous ideas of a new story that happen daily, I find when I am editing new stories come in my thoughts but that's another blog topic ๐<br />
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I really want to be a traditional published writer but I have taken that pressure away because they're many opportunities to get my writing published, and either way a writer chooses one has to research the variety of nuance of traditional vs self-publishing.<br />
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So for now I will appreciate the authors that continue to pave the way, and I will keep being persistence, in my efforts, no writer has ever talked about writing being a smooth effort, writing at times is grueling but what keeps me going is my desire to tell stories.<br />
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1934839663251316426.post-17995900855548614922017-05-21T17:35:00.000-07:002019-01-19T13:07:10.203-08:00Writing, grief, and new beginnings.I'll start off by saying that although my writing routine slowed down after my spouse passed I have began to slowly write, whether its jotting down idea's that come to me all hours of the day, usually the wee hours at night, and I have recalled a few dreams relating to the latest WIP I am working on.<br />
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I have also been reading plenty of books in a variety of genres most recent a YA called <i>Everything</i>, <i>Everything </i>and so glad that the movie followed which stuck close to the book, but what I really liked was the diversity which the author Nicola Yoon was part of the diverse books movement, and also the author was born in Jamaica and that's inspiring for me as a aspiring author. So I hope 2017 will continue be a year in which I work hard on my WIP's and hope for the best, writing a great book takes time and its comforting to come to a place in which I am okay with not rushing and enjoying the process in which I can control.<br />
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<span style="color: blue;">On November 14th 2015 life slowed down</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">you had slowed down and then the last breath of life left you</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">you had given the fight of your life.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">you left so many that loved you but the choice wasn't yours and we have to accept it wasn't our choice either.</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">Needing answers that would never come all that is left is the memories</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">November 14th 2015 life slowed down</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">you slowed down and took your last breath</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">I remember your eyes, I remember your tears</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">Dedicated to my husband who is watching me and his girls until we meet again.</span><br />
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<span style="color: purple;">Also my adult novel I am almost finished second round of revision and also I cannot wait to move on on the third revision/rewrite for each draft I set a goal what I want to achieve all the drafts will include rewrites but for the first one I worked on high-lightening all my adjectives/adverbs some I had to leave because it made sense for the dialogue or the scene. </span><br />
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<span style="color: purple;">I also utilize a self-editing checklist for fiction writers I found this list years ago and it has proven useful in organizing how the mss is polished. </span><br />
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<span style="color: purple;">I also decided paying for an editor is costly so I will work hard and read plenty of books to help me do my own self editing I believe that I can do so. Also I decided to participate in nanowrimo as I write my new YA and hope one day this dream will become a reality as always happy writing.</span><br />
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March 2015 and I have been having thoughts lately of feeling as if I have
failed myself, in my mind and dreams I should be published, but the reality
always resurfaced I slacked off and unconsciously writing became a hobby rather
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I think I also lost the focus how to make juggling work; as of
late I am pursuing my degree, being a mom to two beautiful girls a nine
year old and a fourteen year old , and working full-time is very difficult
to juggle along with pursuing my writing dream in
addition a challenging situation I continue to deal with. Truthfully at that
moment I had to take a pause on many things in order to deal with that matter
but the issue is stabilizing itself and I feel I have a brighter perspective
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I decided to stop belly aching so to speak and juggle my task better, I
love Facebook and other social media for the purpose of learning new
ideas relating to writing and I was fortunate one day to see <a href="http://www.victoriaschwab.com/"><span style="color: windowtext;">http://www.victoriaschwab.com/</span></a> calendar
how she juggles school, exercise and her publishing commitments and that
was the starting point for me to be focused on my writing career, which was a
huge motivator when stickers are involved I love stickers. Writing 500 words
per day has helped me take the edge off so to speak because I am no longer
dreaming of unrealistic things I am setting goals of firstly rewriting
one novel at a time and also coming to terms that the first novel I had written
needed more editing and also longer period of time in which I do not look
at it because I focused for too long it was the novel that was going to get me
an agent and it may be but truthfully only a few authors have
had that awesome experience but later acknowledged they were lucky because
the book was not their best even though it sold really well. I also realized to
pursue a writing career I must read more often and not only authors I adore but
a variety of authors in a variety of genres although romance is still my number
one genre. So the focus is to follow my calendar and at the end
of the month I will get a sense what took more of my time lately
many stickers were for school less on exercising and less on writing because
school is taking up much of my time due to assignments, but the days that I
have extra time to write I feel great the novel I am currently rewriting is at
the 70K mark my aim is for 90K and when I begin the reread/rewrite
process again I hope to stay within that range. I will also begin my
work out routine working out helped me because it did decrease my stress and
improved my self-esteem. I feel more determined and eager to accomplish my
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Happy Writing.<br />
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I must admit an awful truth I have slacked off immensely, well don't be quick to shame me part of the reason is being inundated with university work (wishing I can write everyday, but that won't garner me making a living so I will continue to dream.) <br />
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1934839663251316426.post-48872837973258155602014-05-28T19:07:00.000-07:002014-05-28T19:07:57.517-07:00Pacing<br />
When I began writing in summer 2010 ( previous blog post, I mentioned my epic plan) fast-forward to 2014 my epic plans to be agented and published is not a failure, because it's not a race, and I believe that my dream, although hard will happen because I choose to persevere, I have been through so much, first off, concluding working with initial editor (to be fair I knew nothing of writing) recently being let go by my awesome editor because things had changed between both of us, and that was okay. Deciding to pursue my university degree changed things as well because the delicate balance commenced on top of being a mom, a wife, etc. I realized few days ago I was going about things wrong I was rushing, and in fact, I was not pacing in order to finish a readable manuscript, I am still in love with my original book and at the same time have plenty of ideas as I rewrite it, I am glad I am stubborn because I have not stopped just yet until I finish my first book, when it's all said and done if it becomes a book I hide under my mattress so be it but for now, I will pace to get it done right. <br />
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Part of pacing includes reading I admit I have decreased that, and I have missed out and my muse has suffered that consequence, one thing my second editor told me was to always read because it will enable me to continue learning about the craft and not forget the skills I learned. <br />
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Finally, as I write this blog, I am thinking of the amazing, beautiful, courageous Maya Angelou I will leave you with a wonderful poem this poem inspires me in so many ways.<br />
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Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.<br />I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size<br />But when I start to tell them,<br />They think I'm telling lies.<br />I say,<br />It's in the reach of my arms<br />The span of my hips,<br />The stride of my step,<br />The curl of my lips.<br />I'm a woman<br />Phenomenally.<br />Phenomenal woman,<br />That's me.<br /><br />I walk into a room<br />Just as cool as you please,<br />And to a man,<br />The fellows stand or<br />Fall down on their knees.<br />Then they swarm around me,<br />A hive of honey bees.<br />I say,<br />It's the fire in my eyes,<br />And the flash of my teeth,<br />The swing in my waist,<br />And the joy in my feet.<br />I'm a woman<br />Phenomenally.<br />Phenomenal woman,<br />That's me.<br /><br />Men themselves have wondered<br />What they see in me.<br />They try so much<br />But they can't touch<br />My inner mystery.<br />When I try to show them<br />They say they still can't see.<br />I say,<br />It's in the arch of my back,<br />The sun of my smile,<br />The ride of my breasts,<br />The grace of my style.<br />I'm a woman<br /><br />Phenomenally.<br />Phenomenal woman,<br />That's me.<br /><br />Now you understand<br />Just why my head's not bowed.<br />I don't shout or jump about<br />Or have to talk real loud.<br />When you see me passing<br />It ought to make you proud.<br />I say,<br />It's in the click of my heels,<br />The bend of my hair,<br />the palm of my hand,<br />The need of my care,<br />'Cause I'm a woman<br />Phenomenally.<br />Phenomenal woman,<br />That's me. <br /><!-- .KonaBody --> <br />
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Source: <a href="http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/phenomenal-woman/">http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/phenomenal-woman/</a><br />
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Keisha MartinUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1934839663251316426.post-30357015870630906602014-03-07T19:19:00.001-08:002014-03-16T20:27:07.208-07:00Resiliency<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"></span><br />
I have known for a few years in order to make it in the business of publishing the initial step one must undergo is resiliency also referred to as gaining a 'tough skin.' Things change, which may occur at various stages of the writer's journey. I reassure myself often by stating <em>its okay</em><br />
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I have always been the type of person that let things affect me by over thinking why things happen and blame myself, few years ago I decided I had to work on this, I achieved this by simply telling myself to focus on the things I can change which include:<br />
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<li>Reading often variety of books that teaches various skills of writing a great book, a few years ago I purchased <em>Writing the Breakout Novel workbook</em> by Donald Maas this is a fantastic guide for me as I revise my novel(s) in addition, I have a few more books specifically for writing YA books, since I write as well for teens.</li>
<li>Not rushing things, publishing is slow, therefore it would be a shame to send a manuscript that has so many flaws, although the publishing world seems huge its actually quite small and garnering feedback for a manuscript with flaws is not the way I want to go.</li>
<li>Reading an array of books </li>
<li>Remembering why I chose to write</li>
<li>Identifying numerous resources and seeking the help of writers/authors within the community </li>
<li>In addition, learning the business also include asking questions, such as identify the credentials of an editor.</li>
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I could list many more, but these are the main points I tell myself often, and also tell my peers that are also writers, aspiring to be published like me, human beings I think if giving the choice would always want things to work out their own way, to gain perks however that euphoria is a dream, reality is hard sometimes but it teachers humans to be resilient and grow. If I faltered the first time I got a rejection (I so deserved it, I had no clue few years ago what it takes to hone the craft and sent out a batch of horrible writing samples and queries) then I should not be writing, I write because it's what I love and it's what I will fight for by learning and growing and not backing down when the going gets tough. <br />
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Keisha MartinUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1934839663251316426.post-79864654977552894022014-02-26T15:24:00.000-08:002019-01-20T00:10:49.260-08:00ELEVATED by Elana Johnson--interview<strong>Why did you venture into as you mentioned on your website the indie realm of publishing?</strong>I ventured into Indie publishing with this book, because I think it's worthy to be published. My agent thought so too, as did some editors. But ultimately, there were no offers for the book from a traditional publisher. That doesn't mean the book isn't good -- for this particular title, it meant the traditional market couldn't support it. But that doesn't mean books have to die anymore. So I published it myself -- and it has been an amazing experience!<br />
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ELEVATED is about a girl who gets stuck in an elevator with her ex-boyfriend. She hasn't spoken to him in a few months, and she's been keeping some pretty big secrets from him. So there's a lot of drama and angst. </div>
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<b>How did you come up with the idea for Elevated (gorgeous cover by the way)</b><br />
I got the idea for ELEVATED about 5 years ago, when I was visiting a planetarium with my kids. We got in this huge elevator to go up to the dome for a laser light show, and I thought, "What would happen if we got stuck in this elevator?"<br />
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So the idea was to write about people stuck in an elevator -- one of my greatest fears! It only took a little bit of thinking to make the people exes. </div>
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When I decided to turn it into a verse novel! I had been toiling on it for a few months, having written only 100 pages. Nothing was working. Then I had the idea to stretch myself and try writing in a new way: verse. ELEVATED instantly had new life. </div>
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It's been great! I've had great support from friends and family, and the only differences I've noticed have been mostly positive. I have really enjoyed turning into a "hybrid" author, where I can still write and publish in the traditional market, but also self-publish books that that market doesn't support. </div>
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I loved writing the scene where Elly sees herself clearly for the first time in months. The first line of the poem is, "I've been living a wax paper life." I absolutely love that line, and her realizations. That was a fun part to write. </div>
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The entire end! I always have trouble with endings, and writing ELEVATED was no different. </div>
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<b>What do writers need to know prior to self-publishing their novel?</b></div>
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It is just as much -- or more -- work as traditional publishing. You should plan to hire a professional cover artists, interior designer, editor, copy editor, and proofreader. There's nothing to be skimped on if you want to put out a quality product for readers. </div>
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No. It is a standalone novel. I will be self-publishing another verse novel in September, titled SOMETHING ABOUT LOVE, but it is unrelated in every way to ELEVATED.<br />
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<span style="color: #444444;"><b><a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00IGINRFI" target="_blank">ELEVATED (YA contemporary romance) is available now</a>! </b></span><br />
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<span style="color: red;"><b><i><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Possession-Elana-Johnson/dp/1442421266/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1339643552&sr=8-2&keywords=possession" target="_blank">Possession</a>,</i><i> <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Surrender-Elana-Johnson/dp/1442445688/ref=la_B004BWSGUO_1_1_title_0_main?ie=UTF8&qid=1339643568&sr=1-1" target="_blank">Surrender</a></i></b> and <i><b><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Abandon-A-Possession-Novel-ebook/dp/B009NHQZGY/ref=sr_1_5?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1370484532&sr=1-5&keywords=abandon" target="_blank">Abandon</a></b> </i>-- all available from Simon & Schuster!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #3333ff;">Digital short stories <i style="font-weight: bold;"><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Regret-ebook/dp/B007OVSNDO/ref=sr_1_3?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1339643636&sr=1-3&keywords=regret" target="_blank">Regret</a> </i>(only 99 cents)<i style="font-weight: bold;"> </i>and<i style="font-weight: bold;"> <a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/resist-elana-johnson/1112683535?ean=2940044789883" target="_blank">Resist</a></i> (free!) round out the trilogy.</span></div>
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For more info please check out <a href="http://elanajohnson.blogspot.ca/">Elana's</a> blog<br />
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1934839663251316426.post-56578236432508322142013-12-12T11:43:00.002-08:002014-02-26T15:59:34.930-08:00Tis the season for my writing goalsTis the aseason for my annual writing goals, my aspiration to become a published writer began summer of 2009 and since then I feel I have made strides, not agented nor published but my strides come in the way of finishing five books editing one with my lovely editor Lynnette Labelle and still appreciating the love of writing. Also a biggie for me this year was to truly understand how to format my manuscript its imperitive for writers to know this standard for the business, I was very appreciative when my editor returned my chapter and told me to figure out the formatting when I finally got it I was rejoiced but then had an internal battle with myself because I should have known how to format almost like an sixth sense. So my writing goals have and will remain the same writing until I improve and hope for the best that one day my novel will be snatched out of the slush pile and make an agent swoon over my novel
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Keisha MartinUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1934839663251316426.post-74898076132949744252013-10-12T13:37:00.002-07:002013-10-12T13:43:23.741-07:00Keeping up with the Kard...joking just simple me.
Blogging is hard I feel like I am writing for myself because as I scroll through various blogs which most are from writers I realize writers write similar blogs, many talk about the experience of getting stuck with plot(s), the journey of getting agented, the journey of getting published and some offer great writing resources. I read a post today by the awesome Janet Reid regarding agents appreciate writers/authors who have online presence however <a href="http://jetreidliterary.blogspot.ca/">Janet Reid </a>took this topic a step further and talked about when she is interested in authors she checks out their online presence and checks if the writing skills match the sample she looks at via query or requested pages. That really resonated with me because my first manuscript is still getting polished by my awesome editor but the writing I do on this blog is all me blood sweat and tears.I m pretty good going back and fixing spelling errors but the technical stuff of writing I always stress someone will point out my punctuation is not correct or I have a run on sentence etc which is issues I continue to work on and other known suspects. Janet Reid made perfect sense there has to be consistency in the writing aside from the voice in my opinion for example some days depending on my mood my blog post reflect that and I am an emotional writer in general when I write I really like to show the sorrow, the joy via my words sometimes when my characters are sad I try to write it in a way as if the words are bleeding. So again my ultimate goal is to continue to hone my craft and hope for the best so check out Janet Reid blog although she is not the right agent for me in regards to what manuscripts themes she is looking for she always writes engaging post and has fabulous resources for writers to utilize and I have participated in a few of her contest that are so fun and helps me continue to learn how to craft great intros or scenes.
Happy writing
Keisha MartinUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1934839663251316426.post-77261201590349286852013-07-31T13:06:00.001-07:002013-07-31T13:08:44.380-07:00Back in the groove of writing/reading
Normally toward the ending of July is when I get my writing/reading momentum back in full swing so to speak and also its the time as well in which new ideas tap my muse on the shoulders, and is firmly told to get back in line, it has been a rocky year dealing with plenty of self actualization which normally tended to be beating up on myself, I find I return back on track when I seek the advice of good friends and get their perspective on certain experiences I endured and the theme that I continue to struggle with which is not caring what people think of ME.
Wow that is huge and relates so much to writing and the journey towards publishing because a major part of the journey is what people think of writers projects and it's never personal but for a beginner writer pursuing to acquire an agent/published at times it can seem so.
The goal then is for me to achieve the goal of thickening my skin a bit more so that when I resume querying I won't let the expected rejections to bring me down and also within my personal life it's darn tooting okay that some people won't appreciate me because they are missing out and also sometimes people not liking me has nothing to do with me and likely more about themselves.
Change can only occur when mistakes are not repeated.
Keisha MartinUnknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1934839663251316426.post-57183983149203108732013-07-17T20:05:00.002-07:002013-07-29T23:02:46.571-07:00Update and random thoughts.
Its hot in Toronto, but I am not complaining (okay I did) because few months prior I was looking out my window to heavy snow fall, wind, ice, and praying for heat, I use this theme in my books often there is never any middle ground humans in general are never really happy, and even if one attains to equalizing that middle ground I don't think its ever achievable because things always come up. I have been struggling with that theme trying to find equilibrium in my life being a mom, having a great career (off for summer woo hoo) and striving toward firstly acquiring a literary agent and then published. But until that happens I am still revising ECLIPSE almost done I cannot wait for the whole manuscript to be finished and then tackle synopsis (gah) and then the query and hopefully have another novel to query with the first its all easier said than done and will take time so until then my middle ground will be to take my time and enjoy the solace of writing.
Keisha MartinUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1934839663251316426.post-54283861496009887532013-06-22T08:19:00.000-07:002019-01-20T00:21:05.572-08:00UpdateNot really much to update aside from the fact I am a horrible blog writer, been so busy I haven't had the time to get in a consistent routine with my blog writing, also its almost summer break for my kids and me too because I work in the Toronto District School Board and also I have been revising like crazy the last four chapters of my first book a YA paranormal romance yes it has vamps, Greek Gods and Goddess and a snarky, wicked antagonist, endings are super hard, and I am so fortunate my editor <a href="http://lynnettelabelle.com/">Lynnette Labelle </a> is so tough and won't let me settle for a crap ending indeed it was and she caught me I wanted the easy way out and came up with a plot idea that didn't work and really if I was honest with myself I put my self in a corner and to get myself out I came up with a silly plot premise. So that's it a brief update what I have been up to well another big news I will start university in Fall so that will be another thing I have to juggle with writing, although I have a ton of book ideas but the six I have written I will focus on editing them throughout the years and hold onto the challenging but possible dream I will be signed to an agent and published one day.
Happy writing.<br />
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The easy part of being a writer is having fun making my characters go through various bleep situations and eventually achieve their obstacles but real life doesn't go like that because I have come to realize I cannot control people in reality the same way sometimes I cannot control my characters when they demand the arc of the story to progress a different route. I have decided that I want to be published and in order to get there I have to train myself to focus which coincides with my previous post gaining discipline. So I hope to have established a better regime and get on track with writing and also not letting stress of other people affect my productivity.
Keisha MartinUnknownnoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1934839663251316426.post-23784843782579765832013-04-08T17:48:00.000-07:002013-04-08T17:48:56.991-07:00Discipline when writing
Discipline, the theme word for me for this new week, I have been losing my writing routine due to various stress, and have made a decision to get my bleep back in gear and discipline myself back into a suitable writing routine and also editing. I would like to have the first revision done on my adult erotic romance novel and then read through it one more time make revisions and then pass it to my editor (I have to ask if she does edit steamy adult romance) my first novel a paranormal romance is going well I have been keeping on top of my edits but I want to do better a better means a faster turn-around when my editor sends me back comments/edits. So that is my mini update
Keisha MartinUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1934839663251316426.post-33074738840482651312013-03-24T14:00:00.002-07:002013-03-24T14:00:55.535-07:00Pay it forward/Editor Cassandra Marshall
It took me a while, to realize many things in regards to avoiding a pile up of rejections one of which was finding a great editor to help me polish my novel(s) I am lucky I was referred to my editor Lynnette Labelle from the lovely National best-selling romance author Roni Loren. My first YA is progressing nicely and the cost of the edits works well with my budget(aspiring writers never quit your day job) Today while going back and forth from twitter and rewriting couple chapters Cassandra Marshall sent out a tweet regarding ways to promote her editorial services I sent a few ideas, she expressed her goal which is for writers to hire her which makes sense, so to pay it forward I have attached the links to her websites, check out her info if it works for you make the decision to get serious about your manuscript and put it into the hands of someone that will help you rip it apart and sculpt it back again and hopefully better your chances with an agent/publisher.
<a href="http://www.camarshall.com/">LINKS</a>
<a href="http://www.editorcassandra.com/">LINK II</a>
Keisha MartinUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1934839663251316426.post-59660096076840013912013-03-01T16:07:00.003-08:002013-03-02T22:18:36.462-08:00Love/Hate random poetry
Today March first its significant because four more months until I am on summer break, but since that is a long ways away I will revel in the fact I will go on a much needed vacation without kids and spouse to regenerate a healthy mental healthy and hopeful gain some solid perspective, since my mood has been weird today one minute sad, then calm my muse encouraged me to write this short poem.
The love I feel today how distant it feels tomorrow.
When the days seemed longer, the warm breeze caress my skin and then the gusty cold wind dances on my face.
Love hate what differentiates such powerful feelings?
Is it the sunrise that makes me weep or the sunset that frightens me because darkness hovers nearby.
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1934839663251316426.post-37815368077672037152013-02-17T20:55:00.001-08:002013-02-18T10:20:40.666-08:00Mindfulness
Last week Friday I participated within a few workshops that had similar themes; stress relief, positive thinking and mindfulness. I recently decided I need to learn how to deal better with my stress, I have mentioned a few times in previous post why I began writing. Since writing is not so much an outlet for my stress and has become a goal that I want to pursue in order to hopefully get an agent and published I realize to do so I must be in good space to write, but its easier said than done, stress is defined as:
A force exerted when one body or body part presses on, pulls on, pushes against, or tends to compress or twist another body or body part.
When I am stress it really does feel like something is pulling inside my heart, my head feels heavy, my entire body is tensed.
Source: http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/stress
Mindfulness is defined as: Bearing in mind;inclined to be aware
I'd learned via my education as Child Youth Worker how important positive thinking is, coping when life sometimes feels like someone is repeatedly kicking one in the shins, my purpose is to teach mindfulness to the various clients I work with however, the snag is that I do not follow my own training and the result for me is increase stress. So to have a healthy mental health I have worked into my schedule few things to begin that process.
*Exercise: Working out three times a week has helped me not only my self esteem but also focusing my energy away from stress
*Meditation: No music just one with myself rejecting the negative thinking, experiences and focusing my mind so that it will record so to speak positive experiences and thinking.
A bit of stress is good though because it doesn't make people comfortable thus never growing, so basically to have a healthy lifestyle everything one goes through has to be balanced, life is a continuous circle at times the circle may be spinning so fast and it only slows down when one allows themselves to take in a long deep breath release the tension and focus on their own mindfulness. A wonderful friend at work mentioned something to me a few weeks ago that stuck with me, she said no one can control or affect the way I feel only I do.
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